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 uu újdyhg jvd fma‍%uhg leu;shs

Tn wfYdal y|.u jqK;a lafIa;‍%h ;=< ckm‍%sh jkafka y|hd úÈyg' y|hdf.a b;sydih u;la lruqo@

biafldaf,a hk ldf,a hd¿fjda ;uhs uq,skau y|hd lsõfõ' biafldaf,a hkak;a biair y|hd lshk jpkh f.or Ndú; fj,d ;sfhkjd' ta uf.a ;d;a;g' ;d;a;f.a hd¿fjda ;d;a;dg lsh,d ;sfhkafka y|hd lsh,d' ;d;a;df.a ifydaorhkag ljqre;a y|hd lsh,d keye' yenehs f.dvla wh ug y|hd lsh,d lshkafka' Ñ;‍%mg lafIa;‍%hg wdjdu iaj¾Kd u,a,jwdrÉÑ" ch,;a ufkdar;ak jf.a wh ug wfYdal lsh,d l;d l<d' ta úÈyg iuyre w;f¾ uu wfYdal úÈyg ye¢kajqKd' úfoia rglÈ fndfyda fokd wu;kafka wfYdal lsh,d' fldfydu jqK;a wfYdal lsõj;a y|hd lsõj;a uuu ;uhs'

mdif,a§ ´,arjqkav¾ flfkla lsh,hs wdrxÑ'
Tõ uu mdif,a ysgmq ckm‍%shu pß;hla' uu C%slÜ .eyeõjd' we;a,ála l<d' YsIHNg n,ldfha idcka fj,d;a ysáhd' ta w;f¾ kdgHj,g;a iïnkaO jqKd' fï yeufoau lrk w;f¾ bf.kSu;a fyd|g l<d' ta ksid mdi,a ldf,a uu ckms‍%h pß;hla' fld;ek ne¨j;a uf.a ku lshejqKd'

Tn mdi,a ld,fha§ bÈßhg hkafka fudk lafIa;‍%fhkao lsh,d n,dfmdfrd;a;=jla ;sfhkak we;s'

Tõ ;snqKd' uu Tng lsõjd' mdi,a YsIHNg n,ldfha idcka flfkla lsh,d' b;ska tod uf.a ySfka jqfKa yuqodj' yuqodjg nefËkjd lshk ;ek ;uhs uu ysáfha' fldákau ta f,j,a bjrfj,d äf*kaia welvñhg hkak wema,sflaIka od,d m<uqjeks bkag¾ùõ tlg;a .shd' ta bkag¾ùõ tfla uu m<uqjekshdg;a f;areKd' ta tlalu udj úYajúoHd,hg f;dar.;a;d lsh,d mKsúvh wdjd' uu yuqodj me;a;lg od,d úYajúoHd,h f;dar.;a;d'

yuqodj w; wereKq tl .ek Tn wo i;=gqo@

Tõ wo fkfuhs úYajúoHd,hg .sh ldf,u yuqodj tmd jqKd' fldákau miafia ldf,lÈ ug yuqod ks,we÷ula olskfldg;a fmdä wmq,la oefkkak .;a;d' lefváx lrk ldf,a wdidfjka w,a,mq ;=jlal=j w;.dkakj;a" ta Èyd n,kakj;a ms<sl=,a ;rug ug tmd jqKd'

uu wy,d ;sfhkjd Tn Ñ;‍% Ys,amshg;a oialï mEjd lsh,d'

mqxÑ ldf,a b|,d Ñ;‍% wekaod' ta ldf,a Ñ;‍% l;d yß ckm‍%shhs' ckl r;akdhl" nkaÿ, yßYapkao%" n,kaf.dv ir;auOq wfma ùrfhda' ug;a Th Ñ;‍% l;d n,k msiaiqj ;Èkau ;snqKd' ug u;lhs uu biafldaf,È hd¿jkaf.a fmd;a wrf.k tajdfha foaÿkqf.a" hqksfldaf.a" fgda.df.a Ñ;‍% w¢kjd' ta ldf,a Ñ;‍%l;dj, ysgmq ùr pß; ;uhs tajd' ug Ñ;‍% w¢kak mq¿jka lsh,d ys;=fKa tfyuhs' yenehs ojila .Ks;h i¾ W.kajkfldg uu i¾j wekaod' ´l hd¿fjda oelald' hd¿fjda w;r uu Ñ;‍% Ys,amsfhla jqfKa tfyu' tod i¾f.a Ñ;‍%h hd¿fjda oelalg i¾ oelafla keye'

Tn fudk foa l<;a wOHdmkhg uq,a ;ek ÿkakd lsh,d Tnu lshkjd'

Tn yß' ta jdf.au ug tod bo,du ;snqKd mqreoaola tl jevla lrk .uka ;j;a jevla .ek ys;kak' uu wo ys;kjd uf.a jevj, ryi;a talu ;uhs lsh,d' .Ks;h i¾ W.kajkfldg Tyqj Ñ;‍%hg keÛqjdg uu .Kka w;miq lf<a keye' ta uf.a yeá' uu oeka Tn;a tlal l;d lrkjd' ta w;r uf.a rdcldßhg wod< foaj¨;a uu ys;kjd' tal ug Wm;skau wdmq fohla' uu w;a foflkau tljr fmdaiag¾ w¢kak mq¿jka flfkla' we;a;gu ug tljr jev folla ;=kla lrkak mq¿jka' bf.k .kak w;f¾ W.kajkjd' ta uf.a C%uh' mdi,a ldf,;a uu wfkla whg mdvï lsh,d fok .uka uu;a bf.k .kakjd'

wms kdgH .ek l;d lruq' Tn kdgHj,g wefokafka fldfyduo@

wfma biafldaf,a ysáhd fndl,fj, lsh,d i¾ flfkla' i¾ kdgHhla l<d' uu talg iïnkaO jqKd' t;fldg uu kdgHhla n,,d ;shd ta .ek wy,dj;a ;snqfKa keye' ta;a tal ug f,dl= w;aoelSula jqKd' l,djg keUqre fjkak tal ug ;,a¨jla jqKd' tal;a tlal uf.a T¨jg tk is;=ú,s wl=re lrkak;a uu mgka .;a;d' ug ys;sÉp foa ,sõjd' kdgHhl yeisÍu" kdgHhl m<uqj ksoyia jk jpkh fudk ;rï jákjdo" tal fkao kdgHfha ,h ;SrKh lrk ;ek lsh,d uu tod f;areï .;a;d' ta jf.au ´ähkaia tl fldfydu m‍%;spdr olajhso lshk tl;a tod uu nrm;< úÈyg ys;=jd' fïjd fmd;aj, ;sfhk tajdo okafka keye' ta;a fï tod ug oekqK yeá' ta wdNdihka fldfykaj;a ,enqKdo okafka keye' m<uqjeks tl l<dg miafia ;uhs fï yeufoau oekqfKa' ta mdr Èf.a uu yqÛla ÿr .shd'

tfyu wd Tn ‘y|.u uqo%dj;a’ ;nkjd'

tal fï ksidu jqKd lsh,d ug lshkak neye' wfkl uu udj uqo%djla úÈyg iudc.; lr,do lshk tl;a ug ;Skaÿ lrkak neye' fldfydu jqK;a uf.a jevj, wjidkh i,l,d n,kfldg ug ysf;kjd tfyu jqfKa iuyrúg uf.a tlaiafmdi¾ tl wvqlu yskaodo lsh,d' fldfydu yß uu rEmjdyskS kdgHhla lrkfldg uu kdgHhl IQáka tllaj;a oel,d ;snqfKa keye' uu bf.k .;af;a ld¾ñl Ys,amSka tlal uf.a T¿j we;=f<a ;sfhk foa;a .<m,hs' uu ys;kjd ug wkkH hula lrkak ug mq¿jka jqfKa fï wúêu;alu yskaouhs' fldfydu;a uu úêu;a Odrdjl bf.k .;af;a keye' tfyu jqjukdjla ug ;snqfKa;a keye' ta w;r cúfm foaYmd,khg újD; ùu;a ug hï msájy,la jqKd' fï ish¨ ixl,k wiafia l=vd l, isgu .Ks;hg ud ;=< ;snQ iyc olaI;dj udj yeu wxYfhkau f.dvla ÿr f.kdjd lsh,d uu ys;kjd'

Tn .Kkaldrfhla fjk úÈy u;la lruqo@

uu .Ks;h úIh Odrdj .;af;a wfkla úIhka f;dar.;a;d kï wksjd¾hfhka m‍%elaál,a hkak fj,djla fydhd.kak neßfjk yskaohs' ta;a ta f;dard.ekSu fyd|hs' wo uy nexl=jg uu tkafka;a ta f;dard .ekSu yskaohs' fldfydu yß T;ek;a wu;l fkdjk l;djla ;sfhkjd' leïmia tfla uf.a .Ks; .=rejrhd fm%df*i¾ úC%uiQßh' Th ldf,a uu kdgHj,ghs wrjghs fïjghs ÿj ÿj bkakjd' úYajúoHd,hg hkafka keye' úYajúoHd,fha úNd.h ,shkak kï meñ”u;a wksjd¾hhs' ishhg wiQjla ´kEuhs' ojila ug fm%df*i¾ l;d lr,d lshkjd ‘y|.u ;uqfia álla mßiaiï fjkjd' fudlo ;uqfia kdjdg ;uqfia wdmq njg fufya .eyekq <ufhla ;uqkaf.a w;aik .ykjd’ lsh,d' fudkjd jqK;a Tyq tod uql=;a lf<a keye' Tyqg tod welaIka tlla .kak ;snqK;a .;af;a keye' ta fudkjd jqK;a uu ta wjqreoafoa neÉ fgdma jqKd'

cúfm oeä u;Odßhl=j ysgmq Tn thska bj;a jqfKa wehs@

2002 ue;sjrKh ldf,a cúfmg ;snqKq úfõpkh cúfm w;awßkak ug oeäj n,mEjd' cúfm m‍%;slafIam fjkak tal tl fya;=jla' ta jf.au W;=f¾ m‍%Yakh iïnkaOfhka cúfm oelajQ m‍%;spdrh;a hqoaOhhs' uf.a ia:djrh ks;ru mej;sfha hqoaOhg úreoaOjhs' fï ish¨ fkd.e<mSï ug cúfm w;wßkak fya;= jqKd' ta;a tod jf.au wog;a ta mlaIhg ;snqKq wdorh ud ;=< ;sfhkjd' tafla fjkila kE' uu ;ju;a ys;kjd fudlla yß fjkilg hkjd kï ta i|yd úNjhla cúfmg wog;a ;sfhkjd lsh,d'

wms Tnf.a mdi,a ld,fha flreï .ek l;d l<d' ta;a mdi,a fma‍%uh w; wereKd lsh,d ug ysf;kjd' tal u;la lruqo@

tal yß' l;djg uÛ wereKdg ta ldf,a tfyu foaj,a u. werefKa;a kE' yeu me;af;kau iqkaorhs' fl,a,;a tfyuhs' fma‍%uh;a tfyuhs' fl,a, w,a,mq biafldaf,a ysgmq ,iaiku fl,a,' ,iaiku fl,a, Èkd.kak mq¿jka fjkjd lshkafkau ta ldf,a fmdä mfya ùrlulao@ yeufoalskau jf.a t;ekÈ;a Èkakd' l;dj w;f¾ mqxÑ fohla lshkak ´kE' ug ;snqKd olaIlula' ta ;uhs fudkjd yß ,nd.kak ´kE lsh,d ys;=fKd;a tal fldfydu yß Èkd.kak mqreoaola' fïl;a ta mqreoafou fldgila' fl,a,f.a ys; Èkd .;a;d' fukak ta tlalu uu lúfhla fjkak mgka .;a;d' uu tl È.g lú ,shkjd' fldákau wfma fma‍%u l;dj Ñ;‍%l;djla úÈyg;a wekaod' t;fldg uu kjfha mka;sfha' wfma mka;sfhka biair fj,du fl,af,la hd¿ lr.;af;;a uu' t;ek;a ùrhd uu' tal ld,hla mej;=Kd' ´f,j,a lrkfldg tl m‍%Yak m;‍%hlg ,sh,d fojeks tl ,shkak fok úfõlfha§ wms hd¿fjda ál ta mdi,g hkjd' tal ;snqfKa wfma mdi, bÈßmsguhs' b;ska .syska ta ldf,a m‍%o¾Ykh jqKq ckl iy uxcq Ñ;‍%mgfha ‘rkal| fmï yඬ .=ï ȧ’ lshk .S;h lsh lsh .ia jfÜ ÿj ÿj kgkjd' yenehs úYajúoHd,hg wdjdg miafia ta ish,a, fjkia jqKd' fma‍%uhg fhduq fjkak ;snqKq ld,h weysreKd' fldákau tal fpdhsia tlla fkdjk ;ekg m;ajqKd' fma‍%uh fpdhsia tlla fkdjqK yskaou wms fojeks úl,amhla fyõjd' ta yïn jqK foa ;uhs cúfm foaYmd,kh'

cúfm fjkqfjka Èú mrÿjg ;n,d lrmq jev we;s'

;snqKd' uf.a kdÜá rg mqrd /f.k hk nifha ;uhs úf–ùrf.a l;d wka;¾.; leiÜmg;a wrf.k hkafka' ta jf.au cúfm ,S*a,Ü wrf.k .sfh;a tafla' tod tajd wyqjqKd kï b;ska .iau ;uhs'

wo kï ord isák Tnf.a mdi,a iuld,Skfhda bkakjdo@

Tõ' tl mka;sfha fkdjqKg rxð;ï .=Kr;akï" l=ud¾ .=Kr;akï" uydpd¾h ,,s;a iurfldaaka" rEldka; .=K;s,l uf.a iuld,Skfhda' wms tl tl lafIa;‍%j,ska u;=jqKd' rxð;ï ysáhd kï f–úmS tfla .uka uÛ fjkia fjkak mjd ;snqKd' l=ud¾ mjd yßu ixfõ§ ñksfila' ieneúkau olaIfhla'

iskud.ukh ms<sn| l;d lruq'

wms yefokafka jefvkafka ksoyiska miafia we;s jqK tla;rd hq.hl' wOHdmkh we;=f<;a wms biairyg tkafku úúO m‍%;sC%shd yd m‍%;spdr olajñka' wms olajmqq m‍%;spdr yeufjf,au foaYmd,kslhs' tfyu jgmsgdjl wfma iskud m‍%ldYk yefokafk;a fï foaYmd,k h:d¾:h ;=<uhs' ta ksidu ta yryd m‍%ldY jk foa fudk úÈylskaj;a ta h:d¾:fhka úhqla; fjkafka;a kE' ta ;=< wmsg isoaO fjkjd fjku úÈylg wr.,hl fhfokak' iudch we;=f<a lsishï lïmkhla we;s lrkak' uu ys;kjd tod ta lïmkh fma‍%laIlhkag oekqKd' uu ‘bkswjka’ olajd tkfldg tal álla fjkia fjkjd' fudlo t;ekÈ uu ta fudfydf;a u;jdohg jvd tal m‍%Yak lrk ;eklg tkjd' fï ish,af,a tl;=fjka ;uhs Tn l,ska lsõ ,l=K" uqo%dj ud ;=< igyka fjkjd we;af;a'

Tng fï fudfydf;a foaYmd,kh .ek lshùula we;s' tal t<shg odkjg uu leu;shs'

uf.a lshùu kï fï fudfydf;a isiagï tl lvd jeá,d' wms ys;kjd mqoa.,fhla udre lr,d isiagï yokak mq¿jka lsh,d' ta;a tal tfyu nE lsh,d ;yjqrehs' ta fudlo mqoa.,fhd;a fï isiagï tflau f.dÿre fjkjd' fïl úIu jC%hla' fïl fjkia lrk tl úYd, wNsfhda.hla' wms tflla krlhs lsh,d tflla f.kdjdu ál ojilska ysf;kjd ysgmq tld fyd|hsfka lsh,d' ta;a miq.sh ldf,a isÿjqK mßj¾;kh Èyd n,mqjdu ysf;kjd hï fohla yß Èkd.;a;d lsh,d' ta álj;a yod.kak fjkjd' rgla bÈßhg hkak kï mqoa.,hkaf.a ys;=ukdmhg fjkia lrkak neß isiagï tlla wdfha yokak fjkjd'

fma‍%uh iy újdyh .ek wo Tnf.a lshùu fldfyduo@

fma‍%uh ;uhs Ôú;hl moku' ñksiaiq Ôj;a lrjkafka fma‍%uh' uu yeuodu;a wdorh lrkak leu;shs' ta;a újdyh lshk tl Bg yd;amiskau fjkia' újdyh lshkafka o%jHuh ne£ula' uu wo ys;kjd újdyh we;=f<a moku fjkafk mqoa.,sl foam< lsh,d' újdyh lshkafka yeuúgu fma‍%uh u; mokï fjÉp fohla fkfuhs' ta ksid uu újdyhg jvd fma‍%uhg leu;shs'

ä‍%kala tlla tlal;a f.dvla ÿr hkak mq¿jka fkao@

we;a;gu' tal iudc wdY‍%hla' ug ;kshu fndkak nE' ug fndkjd lshk tl ;ks jevla fkfuhs" f,dl= weiqrla' ta ;=< ñ;=re iud.ula ;sfhkjd' ta ;=< fndfyda ÿr hkak mq¿jka' wjYH fjkafka ta ÿr hkak mq¿jka YslaIKh we;s lr.kak tlhs' uOqú;la we;=f<a úkaokhla ;sfhkjd' tal fidaI,a jevla' uu talg leu;shs'

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